MARTIN 🇬🇧 AND MUSONDA 🇿🇲

How I Met Musonda

I never thought I’d find love online, let alone on RaceDating.com. I signed up half out of curiosity, not expecting much. Then I came across Musonda’s profile. Her smile struck me immediately it wasn’t posed or forced, just genuine. Her bio said: “Love should be kind, patient, and fearless.” Those words stuck with me.

I sent her a simple hello, and that was the start of everything. At first, our conversations were light about life in Ndola, about how miserable the UK weather can be. But soon, we were talking every night, laughing, sharing our dreams, and before long, I realized I couldn’t go a day without hearing from her.

After weeks of video calls, I knew I had to meet her. Booking that flight to Zambia was the easiest decision I’ve ever made. Still, I was nervous what if the connection wasn’t the same in person? But the moment I saw her at the airport, waiting for me with that same smile, all the doubts disappeared. Our first hug felt like we had known each other forever.

In Ndola, Musonda showed me her world her favorite café, the streets she grew up walking, the way she lit up when greeting neighbors. Every little thing made me fall deeper. I came looking for a connection, but what I found was home in her.

RaceDating.com brought us together, but it’s love fearless and patient that keeps us moving forward.